Ben and Kilee

Ben and Kilee

Thursday, December 22, 2011

The First Big Adventure in Arkansas

We traveled to Arkansas to visit my family for Christmas. It's quite different than any visit we have had to Texas... and it has been AWESOME! There is so much to do with my family. We jumped on the trampoline, played slam ball, swung on the swing, made smores and a dutch oven dinner, played darts (which I have won almost every time), ping pong, Apples to Apples, and also got to experience the first Walton store and Walmart museum (which was really interesting, actually). Today was the real adventure though. The boys went golfing, so my sisters and I stayed home and played Mario Party, had a dance party, did darts, slam ball, and then went for a bike ride.


I was really excited to ride bikes. The boys were home from golfing, so Zach wanted to come with us. I was looking forward to riding bikes on all the hills, coasting down the hills, getting an adrenaline rush and stuff. I wasn't expecting any real danger because I feel confident with my ability to handle the bike. However, when we went to the garage to get the bikes, I did say, "Everyone get a helmet," which no one wanted to do, and I was talked out of wasting our precious time to look for one for me. I checked the brakes on my bike and noted that the back one wasn't working, so I had to be careful. But the first one seemed fine, so I wasn't too worried.

As we started out, we had to go uphill to get off our street. It was a beast. When we got to the top, I decided we should go down this street that ends in a circle driveway, thinking it would be safer because there were only two houses on the street and pretty much no traffic. Not being familiar with the area, I did not think about the steepness of the hill or anything of that nature. I led the pack of us going down the hill, at first whooping with excitement with the rush of coasting down the hill. Looking back, this whole experience is funny to me.

My whooping turned into terrified screams as the hill got steeper and I realized that my brakes were not working. Period. My first thought was, oh crap I am not wearing a helmet. Then I started screaming at Zach that my brakes weren't working, but of course, he couldn't do anything for me except laugh. I got to this slight uphill part that made me slow down a little, so I started feeling better about it and thought, ok, I won't die. I was still going really fast, and then I went down hill again and picked up even more speed. As I approached the circular driveway in the end, I saw that there was a basketball hoop knocked over on it's side, but that there was still room to go around it as I made the turn to go back up the hill. I still wanted to stop (and also wasn't sure I could made that sharp of a turn), so I started dragging my feet on the ground until I thought my ankles might break off and picked them back up. I finally got to the quick turn to go back up hill, but I didn't make it. I slammed into this small pole, falling off the bike and landing in a thorny bush. My right leg was completely twisted in the bike, and I felt like I couldn't move my leg. I thought I broke my knee. But I didn't :) After I got over the initial shock of falling off my bike and not being able to move my knee, I got up and walked around. Zach saw the whole thing, and he tried so hard not to laugh. I'm sure the crash looked ridiculous. Emily and Krista arrived after I had already fallen, and they were concerned that I had hit that basketball hoop and knocked it over. Now that would have been a crazy crash. It was really funny when Emily asked me if that had happened.

But I walked the whole way home, and by the time I got home my knee felt a lot better. I tried to keep myself moving all day so I didn't let it tighten up. I even still went swimming this afternoon. Now that I have slowed down and have let my body rest, I am kind of in pain everywhere, mostly in my right leg though, and my neck and back just feel shaken up and slightly in shock, but I feel really lucky that my crash wasn't worse. It really wasn't as bad as it could have been, and the more I think about it, the more I laugh at myself. It's just so dumb and funny, and for some reason it makes me happy lol.

Tomorrow we are going to Crystal Bridges (art museum), and I am so excited! Then we have my family's ward Christmas party, then it's Christmas Eve, then Christmas! Merry Christmas everyone!

Saturday, December 17, 2011

We did some Christmas baking!

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Yes, we did some Christmas baking with our first free day from work and school, and it was awesome.
6+ hours in the kitchen. Creaming, mixing, beating, baking, and cleaning! We are beasts :) It was AWESOME!

Playing in the kitchen is a fun activity for us to do together. We smashed bags of candy canes against the walls to crush them, we danced to Christmas music, we did LOTS of dishes, and in the end, we got to deliver plates to some of our neighbors and friends.



 Look at how staticy the wrappers are! They were stuck to the walls and everything!




Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Car Accident Update!

I forgot to post this earlier!
I am doing awesome! I switched chiropractors and he has made the biggest difference in how well my back is healing. I have made great strides over the past couple months, and I hope to continue to do so well! I currently can swim 14 laps in the pool and run a mile and a half. By the end of Christmas break, I hope to be at 2.5 miles, and I'm taking a swimming class next semester, so that will help with my swimming abilities :) We are so excited with the possibilities this opens up for us now! I can hike and play basketball and do lots of stuff that have been off limits for the past year.
Also, the case is closed! No more dealing with insurance companies and wondering if medical bills with get paid or not! It's a great feeling :)
 One day, we will grow old and be like this, walking around the track still :)

2011 is coming to a quick close!

I can hardly believe that this year is almost done. It has gone by so fast. And yet, so slow as well.

Most importantly, we have seen God's hand touch our lives all year long. We have been very blessed.

Ben started an internship with Northwestern Mutual. He sought long and hard to get an internship and had a really hard time. We both could not figure out why he was so qualified for many he applied for, why he did so well in interviews, and then kept getting no's. It didn't make sense until he randomly got a phone call to "network" with a random guy in the business school whom he didn't know. Everything fell in place from there. This kid was doing an internship with Northwestern Mutual and just mentioned it to Ben, who looked it up, applied, interviewed, and got hired really fast. Looking back, it is obvious to us how the Lord played such a strong role in getting Ben where he needed to be. He loves this internship because he has a passion for what he is doing, and he really believes in what he does. If you want more information on what he does, you should talk to him :) The end goal is to be a financial planner, and he has a great start right now. And we both think financial planning is super important, especially with the economy right now.

Obviously my thing lately has been school. I took 16.5 credits this semester. 7 classes. To all you students out there, I don't recommend that unless you have lots of guts, believe in yourself that you can do it, and really want to put yourself through hell. Haha. It was tough, but now it is nearing the end! I have seen the Lord touch my life and my schooling all semester long. First of all, I know that I would not have been able to make it through the semester with Ben working so much and me studying so much had it not been for many answered prayers. I also would not have done very well in my classes if it were not for many answered prayers. I have had many tender mercies: classes randomly getting cancelled and me being able to finish assignments that I was just planning on not turning in; Ben doing dishes when he didn't want to but knew that I didn't have time and the dishes were stressing me out; also getting food from people who I will not name but thank with all my heart. There has been so much more! That is just a taste.

I want to let everyone know that I truly believe that God is out there and that He knows each of us, our trials, our desires, and our needs. I have learned this semester that when we put Him and His work first, we will succeed. He will not let us down. Earlier this semester when Ben was working too much and I was studying and stressing too much, our lives were a huge mess. When we finally talked and figured out how to balance our lives outside of the home with our lives with each other, and when we started making sure to put God first (through service to others and through daily scripture study by ourselves and with each other) we balanced our lives much better. I started seeing even more tender mercies in my life! I know that God loves us always, but when we really make an effort to show Him our love and gratitude for Him, He blesses us even more. ***Disclaimer: our lives are far from perfect or easy. I am simply stating the optimistic and blessed side of our lives :) We still have lots of trials that we are getting through, but we are getting through them with the Lord's help!

Here is a shout out to everyone who has helped us this semester in any way at all, from simple things like asking how my day or week have been, to smiling, to hosting family get-togethers, and to just being our friends. We love all of you!

Here is a mini semester in review:

Conference weekend: while the boys went to Priesthood session, the girls stayed home and made some halloween and home crafts. It was super fun! 
 We got to go to the Sunday afternoon session with a couple from our ward, Erin and Josh Matson :)
 One of Kilee's homework projects: breaking a social norm for her Multicultural Education class
 This is just us being cute. And Ben being manly.
 NWM Halloween Party... needless to say, Ben had the better costume!
 Two of Kilee's friends from school. We spent a crazy weekend in Midway for a conference... And what happened in Midway stays in Midway
 Kilee picked up art again and remembered her love for painting. She wants to really keep up with it and not let her talent waste away like it did after graduating high school.
 We are just in love
 It's almost Christmas, and this just about wraps up the year!